Don’t ever be afraid to change how you see something, or how you feel about something as a result of your personal growth. There are so many people willing to tear others down for “changing” and you really have to ask them, why don’t you change?
A few years ago I was accused of changing as if it was a bad thing, and it literally bent my nose out of shape. I know the look on my face was shocked and annoyed. I really didn’t expect that from this person, but then I really sat down to think about the reasons they thought I had changed and most of them led to the fact that that person had not changed at all.
Be the driving force of your own change, you can do it. It isn’t hard at all. Think critically of every choice you make, every set in stone way you have. Are they all truly yours? Or can you sway your own resolve? It’s ok and even healthy to change some of these things that you don’t even know why you think or feel that way. This is when change is the best!
Enjoy these moments of self-doubt, they are a moment of growth and can help you discover who you are really meant to be. Love the process!
Breathe, change is coming.